Archive for March, 2010

Giving Tzedaka to those less deserving

Wednesday, March 31st, 2010

Extracted from Rabbi Abraham Twerski’s “Four Chassidic masters,” page 18 on the introduction to teachings on Chassidus:

“Rebbe Reb Zusia of Anipole had a chassid who would give him money from time to time, and the chassid prospered. Once, when the chassid came to Reb Zusia, he was told that Reb Zusia had gone to his Rebbe, the Maggid of Mezeritch. The chassid said, “if the Maggid of Mezeritch is Rebbe Zusia’s Rebbe, the be must be greater than Reb Zusia,” and now, gave the the Maggid instead.

His business began to fail. He asked Rebbe Zusia why that had happened, and Rebbe Zusia said, “When you did not discriminate and gave to Zusia even though he was not deserving, then Hashem did not discriminate and gave to you. But when you sought to give only to a great tzaddik, Hashem also decided to give only to a great tzaddik, and you did not qualify.” ”

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Putting on Tefillin on Chol HaMoed

Wednesday, March 31st, 2010

I recently heard some interesting insights from Rabbi Eli Kerzner on putting Tefillin on Chol HaMoed, delivered at Toronto’s Shomrai Shabbos Chevrah Mishnayos shul earlier today, the second day of Pesach, between Mincha and Maariv.

Al Pi Halacha, there are authorities that have said that it’s mandatory to put on Tefillin on Chol HaMoed. Both the Talmud Bavli and Yerushalmi support this, and Rav Yehuda was of the opinion that one should put on Tefillin on Shabbos and Yom Tov, let alone Chol HaMoed.

It’s interesting to note a story about R’ Yonasan Eibeschutz, found in a Sefer about him, “Bais Yehonasan.” An Ehrliche person once went into R’ Eibeschutz’s room and for some odd reason decided to check the Rav’s Tefillin. He opened the boxes, and lo and behold, the batim were devoid of the parchment inside – empty! This apparently implied that R’ Eibeschutz never wore Tefillin before in his life, and as it is, many scary things have been written about one whose never worn Tefillin before.

Needless the say, this person took the Rav to court. This person was willing to swear on the Torah that he saw that R’ Eibeschutz’s Tefillin had no parchment. R’ Eibeschutz was shocked that such an Ehrliche person testified against him! He asked this person when he checked the Rav’s Tefillin boxes. The person answered, on Chol HaMoed.

R’ Eibeschutz calmed down, and his blood pressure normalized. He then explained that his Minhag was not to wear Tefillin on Chol HaMoed. Since, however, he was the Rav of a community that did wear Tefillin on Chol HaMoed, R’ Eibeschutz’s practice was to take out the pieces of parchment and wear the straps “for show,” as to not invoke Me’Aras ‘Ayin.

(Personally, I’m curious about the circumstances this came about, since opening and closing Tefillin batim are no easy task. They’re tied up with Cow sinews and practically sealed shut, so I wonder how both the Rav and this Ehrilche Yid both did this in private.

As well, many Misnagdim have put on Tefillin until today, and R’ Eibeschutz was a well-known Misnaged. But, we can’t ask a Kashe on a Maaseh, can we now?)

So, when did the Minhag come about to NOT place Tefillin on Shabbos, Yom Tov, and Chol HaMoed? According to the Tur, the Minhag came about from the Bnei Sefarad. Years ago, they came across something that R’ Shimon bar Yochai (the author of the Zohar) wrote, which scared them off from further putting on Tefillin on those days. It states in the Zohar of Shir HaShirim “The smell of [honey] is good (Tov).” This is in page 73 (or 93 in the “new” edition). Tov then was explained to refer to Yom Tov, which then lead to Shabbos and Yom Tov, etc. On a tangent of a tangent, the Zohar wrote about Hashem Wearing Tefillin.

Apparently, when Hashem puts on His Tefillin, His Tefillin directly brings power to the fourth World, the Olam Ha’Atzilah. When we put on Tefillin, our Tefillin draws power from the third world, the Olam HaYetzirah (the World of Creation), a lower one.

On Shabbos and Yom Tov, He dons the Tefillin Shel Rosh, while on Chol HaMoed Yom Tov, He dons the Tefillin Shel Yad, which is a reflection of the Tefillin Shel Rosh in a manner similar to how the moon reflects the sun. Similarly, Chol HaMoed is a reflection of Shabbos and Yom Tov. He will wear the Shel Rosh or Shel Yad, but not both at the same time. Our own Tefillin in turn acts as copies of the Tefillin that Hashem “Wears,” and helps us enjoy, to an extent, the Hashpa’a of those worlds.

On regular days, Hashem doesn’t “Wear” His Tefillin, and therefore we need to wear them. But when He “Wears” Tefillin on certain days, His influence is more than adequate, and if anything, our wearing Tefillin on those days may be sacreligious in actuality.

This is likened to a king who has a loyal servant. The king trusts the servant that he lets the servant design a copy of the king’s seal in order to “get around.” It’s not the actual seal, but it’s as close to the real thing as one can get. The king later on decides to give the actual king’s seal to the servant to use, the real McCoy. If the servant then was to use his copy rather than the king’s seal, then it would be an insult to the king, liable of death.

So is it with Hashem, the King, and us, His servants. On certain days He wears His Tefillin and this influence bestows His Tefillin on us. Should we still use our copies instead, who knows how badly we would be insulting Him!

(After the speech, I asked the person next to me to repeat certain terminologies, like the names of the third and fourth worlds that Rabbi Kerzner said earlier. He told me the names, but then scoffed, where in the Taryag Mitzvos does it say to learn Kabbalah?

Since we were all leaving Shul, I couldn’t answer him on one foot, but I believe that since the Torah was used to create the world, what with different Tzaros on the letter spacings, Kabbalah, and especially the Zohar, is an essential part of Torah, even though much of it has to do with worlds and Sefirot that don’t directly pertain to us. Limud HaTorah LiShmah is Limud HaTorah LiShmah nonetheless.

As well, the Zohar is Torah. The Torah was, after all designed as a blueprint to create this world. The Zohar merely expounds on the much deeper elements of the Torah, but Chas V’Shalom it should act as an alternastive in any way!)

Rabbi Kerzner can be reached at emkerzner@gmail.com.

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Pesach – Echad Mi Yodea – Talmud Style

Monday, March 29th, 2010

The following is an alternative “Echad Mi Yodea” for those that appreciate Talmud. I personally don’t get the three boys moving their fists behind their opposite shoulders, but was entertained nonetheless!

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Erev Pesach – Oh, the joys of parenthood!

Monday, March 29th, 2010

Anyone who’s a parent can appreciate this.

I B”H have a beautiful baby daughter, Leah, who’s turning 23 months and is fast approaching her “terrible twos.” Yet, even when she’s mischievous she’s the most adorable thing on earth. Here’s a case in point.

Over the past year, my daughter has developed a taste for Shabbos Challah. Whenever she would spot Challah she’d pipe up in an almost questioning tone “Challah?” Usually that meant that she saw Challah, and she wanted it. She would also say, for “Gut Shabbos,” “Shabbos,” and for “Shabbat Shalom” she would say slowly, though melodically, “♫♪ Sha-lo-mein! ♪♫” These are the things that give us such Nachas.

But then those things can and will be used for terror when we least want it. This year, in preparing the house for Bedikas Chametz, my wife and I took a loaf of bread and cut up golf-ball sized pieces of bread, carefully placing a piece of paper towel underneath each piece in order to mitigate the amount of crumbs being spread. While my wife and I were preparing, we noticed that my daughter took one of the pieces from the living room that were within her reach, paper towel and all, and started scurrying to her bedroom, nearly biting into the piece, while cluching it like it was buried treasure. My wife caught her JUST before little Leah reached her bed. When my wife came back, she and I were holding onto our hearts since the Chametz scare was a close one. All of a sudden, Leah, in a perfectly timed manner, called from her room “♫♪ Challah? ♪♫” The shock plus her absolute cuteness had me rolling on the floor in laughter.

Oh, I almost forgot, Leah now copies everything that we grown-ups do “to a T.” She can now say phrases in English and Hebrew, say “Wazzup!” and even imitate the gob-gobbling of a turkey, since most times she acts like one. Well, now, she copied me and started HERSELF falling on the floor, laughing her ever-cute baby laugh, and then saying “♫♪ funny, Abba! ♪♫”

Does anyone here have any cute pre-Pesach stories to share?

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sNOw School 2010

Friday, March 19th, 2010

Oh wow this is amazing!

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Palestinian Minister of Uncontrollable Rage

Thursday, March 18th, 2010

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Cold Chopped Liver – Cantor Henry Rosenblum

Thursday, March 18th, 2010

A musical parody of the American classic, “Old Man River.”

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Some cute Pesach clips

Thursday, March 18th, 2010

Martha Stewart’s Streit’s Tour

“Matzah comes from the Hebrew word Matzah.” Genius!

Robotic Pesach Seder

The Aviv Matza Factory – Funny

Old one – Who Let The Jews Out / Passover

Pesach 5770 / Passover 2010 – Rav Machlis and the Matzah Bakery

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Shabbos and Yom Tov: Are My Horns Showing?

Monday, March 15th, 2010

A big part of what makes Orthodox Judaism so great is the ability to observe Shabbos and Yomim Tovim, which the rituals, customs, and prohibitions inherent, followed correctly, can bring one much closed to Hakadosh Baruch Hu. However, in Chutz La’Aretz, should one attend a non-Jewish school (like university) or work, one will invariably find that certain assignments/exams, or mere attendance is mandatory on such days. Trying to explain why you can’t attend certain events or functions to those with less understanding and therefore minimal religious tolerance is a daunting task. To the non-Jew, or even worse, to the secularized Jew who was barely Bar-Mitzvahed, those days are regular workdays, so why should anyone get special treatment?

In my short work span, I’ve, as it is, likely held more jobs than the number of years I’ve worked. As a result, I’ve worked with everyone from Chasidim to Russians, and then to complete unaffiliated Goyim, and even to secularized Jews who didn’t know about Judaism, and would look at Orthodox Jews in a funny manner. I’ve found that, when working for non-Jews and secular Jews, I would have a difficult time trying to take off for certain holidays. Either I would need to “bank” a certain amount of hours just to take off early on Fridays in the wintertime, as well as take off completely on Yomim Tovim, or I would have to take off personal vacation days.

Personally, I think it’s a bit unfair, and here’s my reasoning why. Countries like the United States and Canada are dominated by X-tianity. Therefore, most places are off on X-mas, New Years, Good Friday, etc., as well as statutory holidays. In the US, days like Martin Luther King day, Columbus day, and Presidents day are taken off, whereas in Canada, Victoria day, Simcoe day, Family day, and Canada day are celebrated. I think that, an ideal solution would be for us Jews to work on the non-Jewish holidays and that we can then take off on our own holidays. But, I don’t think that that will happen, since which clients are open for business on non-Jewish holidays? We’re not living in an ideal world, so there’s no place for ideal values. Besides, business would slow down, if anything.

Although, on the rare occasion, there is that one job where management will be Shomer Torah U’Mitzvos. My first real job out of university was in the Diamond District in Manhattan, working as an IT specialist in a company dominated by Chasidim of many different stripes, save for Lubavitch. There were Satmar, Spinka, and Galanter Chassidim, plus more in the same suite, all getting along throughout the day, making an honest living with which to feed their families. And, I remembered that while working there, I wasn’t clear on what the non-Jewish holidays were, since the company had a special arrangement. We all worked on X-mas and the other non-Jewish holidays, and in return, not only were we allowed to leave early for Shabbos and Yom Tov, but we were also allowed to take off for Chol Hamoed! What a Mechayeh! As well, there was a special cook who made gourmet fish for lunch, as well as a Cappuccino machine. So, we were all ensured the highest level of Kashrus possible, while being able to work undisturbed.

Since working there, as fate would have it, I would find myself working under many different bosses of many different backgrounds. When working for religious Jews, for the most part I’ve had no problem with taking off for Shabbos and Yom Tov. But when working for Goyim, trying to dance through taking off for Shabbos and Yom Tov for the most part has been nothing short of gut-wrenching, believe me. I guess that this is all part of growing up.

Most recently, one of my online Masters courses this semester happens to have an evening online presentation set on Pesach. Since this presentation is to be done in teams, I found it quite the challenge to have the schedule changed to Chol Hamoed Pesach. As well, two of the evenings aren’t possible to take off since one is Erev Shabbos and one is Motzai Shabbos. The one evening of Chol HaMoed that’s possible, as it turns out, precedes Good Friday, so good luck in trying to convince a bunch of non-Jewish students to accommodate when they have these huge plans to take a nice long vacation the day after.

Speaking to the professor about my quandary, she assured me that, for my situation, I will be assigned a separate assignment, meant for only one student to take, due by a certain date. I thanked her for her understanding, but I still wonder: how much, or rather how brightly, are my horns showing?

I’m sure every person reading this has a “horns showing” story to share. Post it in the comments!

P.S. I’m well aware of the origins that Moshe’s Karnayim, which translate into shinings (of light), can also be translated into horns, hence the common misconception.

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Y-Love – Count It! 2007 Album

Monday, March 15th, 2010

This album IMO is perfect for Sefirah

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